话又说回来 and 话是这么说: then again, that may be so, but
【高130】【高137】口语格式 / fixed patterns
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话又说回来 brings the conversation back to the other side of the question: after arguing one view (often a complaint or a concession), you rebalance with the counterpoint. Think "that said", "then again", "on the other hand". It is often preceded by 不过 / 但 / 可是: 不过话又说回来,……
话(说)是这么说 grants what the other person has just said (a rule, a piece of advice, a principle) and then objects: 话是这么说,不过 / 可 / 可是……. Think "that may be so, but…", "true enough, but". What follows must contrast; it never continues the thought. The usual form is 话是这么说, the 说 of 话说是这么说 is optional.
Both are spoken (or informal written) devices for arguing with nuance or reluctantly. They differ from 虽然……但是…… (hsk2-g42), which fits in one sentence: here the concession and the reservation are spread over two sentences, sometimes over two speakers.
Examples
这家店的东西是贵了点。不过话又说回来,一分钱一分货,用料确实好。
Zhè jiā diàn de dōngxi shì guì le diǎn. Búguò huà yòu shuō huílái, yì fēn qián yì fēn huò, yòngliào quèshí hǎo.The things in this shop are a bit pricey. Then again, you get what you pay for, and the materials really are good.
租金确实该涨,物价都涨了嘛。话又说回来,也不能一下子涨这么多。
Zūjīn quèshí gāi zhǎng, wùjià dōu zhǎng le ma. Huà yòu shuō huílái, yě bù néng yíxiàzi zhǎng zhème duō.The rent does have to go up, prices are rising everywhere. That said, it cannot jump this much all at once.
老师总说“失败是成功之母”。话是这么说,可连续失败三次,谁都会灰心。
Lǎoshī zǒng shuō “shībài shì chénggōng zhī mǔ”. Huà shì zhème shuō, kě liánxù shībài sān cì, shéi dōu huì huīxīn.The teacher always says "failure is the mother of success". True enough, but after three failures in a row anyone would lose heart.
医生说得很明白,这个病不好治。话又说回来,也不能因为生病就失去希望。
Yīshēng shuō de hěn míngbai, zhège bìng bù hǎo zhì. Huà yòu shuō huílái, yě bù néng yīnwèi shēngbìng jiù shīqù xīwàng.The doctor was quite clear that this illness is hard to treat. Then again, being ill is no reason to lose hope.
现在的年轻人压力确实大。但话又说回来,哪一代人没有自己的难处呢?
Xiànzài de niánqīngrén yālì quèshí dà. Dàn huà yòu shuō huílái, nǎ yí dài rén méiyǒu zìjǐ de nánchù ne?Young people today really are under a lot of pressure. But then again, which generation has not had its own troubles?
“你就收下吧,人家也是一片好意。”“话是这么说,可这么贵重的礼物,我实在不好意思收。”
“Nǐ jiù shōuxià ba, rénjia yě shì yí piàn hǎoyì.” “Huà shì zhème shuō, kě zhème guìzhòng de lǐwù, wǒ shízài bù hǎoyìsi shōu.”"Just take it, they mean well." "True, but such an expensive present, I would really feel awkward accepting it."
Common mistakes
✗ 话又说回来,我们开始开会吧。 → it cannot open a conversation: it assumes a first view has already been put forward, which it now balances.
✗ 话是这么说,因此我们去吧。 → ✓ 话是这么说,不过我们还是去吧 (after 话是这么说 the continuation must contrast: 不过 / 可 / 可是).